F-ked up

I can’t find a word to describe how I’m feeling now.

If I was a snail, I’d probably hide in my shell for a few days.

Too much has happened, all within two days.

It really sucks when people insist that you have a problem which you deep inside know you don’t have. And what sucks more is when people you trust don’t trust you. They’d trust the world, but they won’t trust you.

I’m damn emotional at this moment, and probably none of you would even catch what I’m trying to say here. All I want to say is that I’m thankful that I have such an understanding sister who knows what’s in my mind even before I speak. She doesn’t give a fuck about the world and reads my mind by just looking into my eyes. And my family is what I need at the end of the day.

When it comes to love, does age really matter?

This is a question which has been on my mind for the longest time. It’s quite a casual sight to see young girls dating men much older. So this doesn’t really matter to me.

Money speaks.

But when I see a couple which consists of a young man and a woman more matured, I get a little worried.

Maybe it’s because I’ve seen people going against this stigma in the name of ‘Age is nothing, but just a number’ and I’ve seen these very people having marital problems just a few months after their marriage.

It’s proven that women age faster then men. (Not just physically, but intellectually as well.) Hey, I’m not saying men are stupid! Don’t get me mistaken. It’s pretty normal to hear that women leave men ‘cos the men are too childish/ immature for them. It’s biological. It happens. Though sometimes the immaturity of men (tugging of girls hair in the name of fun, dissing people with crude jokes, and being plain insensitive to the feelings of others) can be a little annoying, sometimes I feel that it’s better to live life this way! It makes you a happier person. Haaa. Ok back to the topic now.

Speaking from the ‘physical’ aspect, there’s something in our darn skin which makes us women age faster. Shucks! There are men who are deceitful in normal relationships already. What more with a woman who looks like his aunty!

Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher

Jennifer Aniston and John Mayer

For men, they’re very much attracted to what they see. So once they see the wrinkles forming, they’re probably gonna lose the attention and interest which they had on you before you had them. (Unless the men look deflated themselves. Lol.)

These are the very important facts that women MUST know before they get involved with men much younger! I’m not saying that all men who marry women older are going to be double-crossing you. I’m just saying that the chances are higher in your case. So, if you have the confidence in your man, and you have the money and time to take care of yourself, go ahead. If not, just stick to finding a man your age or older. Unless you have a thrill when people make a wuss of you!

Be happy and a HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!

Oh Shirley

My colleague has gone back to her hometown for the CNY holidays.

I felt…. Unusual.

So I took out my pen and wrote a poem

(Fine, that was a lil exaggerated. I typed it on her facebook actually)

Here it goes…

Oh Shirley,
You’re so fine and girly,
Your teeth’s so clean and pearly,
But your hair’s straight aint curly,
Oh Shirley, yeah Shirley.

Oh Shirley,
When you’re away you’ve no bully,
Uh huh that makes me lonely,
Loving you greatly,
That too truely.
Oh Shirley, yeah Shirley.
♥

******

Epppadi???

Powderful Tag message of 2010