I really need to know what’s up with people googling for the word ‘porcupine’ and getting themselves diverted to my blog. And when I mean search, I mean 70 – 80+ of these people getting directed to my blog for the past week. Was there some accident involving a porcupine or something? If there was, please do enlighten me.
Moving forward, I’m just going to speak my mind about something really random. This has nothing to do with my personal life, but I’ve seen it happening around. Here’s my few cents worth.
This entry has adult content, so if you feel that this might make you uncomfortable, you’ve been warned.
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Most of us claim about the equal rights among the two genders and so forth, but women are generally lagging behind in many ways. Even in simple matters, men try to shut women up by saying ‘Oh, it’s just a men’s thing.’
What exactly, is a men’s thing? Something I really can’t tolerate is how males go around doing mistakes using their gender as a lame excuse. It really isn’t wise to blame one’s gender for the lack of ability in controlling one’s mind over their body.
A small example would be a married male gawking at a woman who walks past, and obviously lusts at her. When his wife questions him, he may just put it off as ‘It’s just a men’s thing.’
Oh yes, I’m aware that men are attracted to visuals, but has nothing to do with gawking and lusting at every woman. If this attraction is so powerful, does this mean you get attracted to your own mother/ sister’s curves in their body?
In some sick cases, yes. Guys do lust over their sisters. (Please remind me again on how sick men are. We don’t see women raping their sons. But it happens the other way around.) But in most cases, men control themselves from looking at their family in that way. Cos they know that it’s a mistake. I really don’t quite get why this control can’t be used when one is looking at a random woman.
Are you going to tell me that just looking isn’t lusting? You’re wrong.
“It is normal for men to notice other women. It’s even normal for men to lust after women. It’s not right, but it’s normal.
One of the reasons you are losing the passion for your wife is because you are allowing yourself to lust after these other women. The moment you lust, you are not only devaluing the object of lust, you’re placing your “heart’s desire” in something that’s not yours to do that with.”
In the Bible, it reads;
–Matthew 5:28
“But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”
For those who claim that it’s in the gender, here’s your answer.
-1 John 2:16
“For everything in the world—the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does—comes not from the Father but from the world.”
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And some may say,
“What’s wrong if I see? I’m not touchin them, or sleeping around with them.”
To me, once one is in a committed relationship, lusting at someone else is the first step to adultery. Be it someone walking down the street, an actress, or a simple act as watching porn.
Once you start lusting, you start comparing your partners with these people and give them pressure to become someone else.
Lusting, touching, sleeping around all boils down to one thing. Unfaithfulness.
Admit it, and stop pretending that you’re not sinning cos it’s all normal. It’s not.
AND just for your info, as a woman, let me tell everyone that women are as visual as men. We do lust at hot men, but we know when to draw the line.
Get the fact straight that women do lust, but we draw the lines when in a commitment. That’s cos we’ve been that way, for many years now.
Once again, this does not involve the males in my life, and of course Ragu. This is specially for ungrateful, unfaithful retards who live in denial. I hope I’ve nailed it right on your forehead.
I’ve personally met men who are against infidelity as well. So I’m not saying every male is like that, but I’m damn sure, most males think this way.
My apologies if I’ve offended anyone or the male species in general.
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And what replay? Does he think he's messaging a CD player or something?
